Hello :)

Ok.
As you can see, I've put the layout up.
The blog's URL is http://touchodestiny.blogspot.com -- note the touchodestiny, as it wouldn't let me have touchofdestiny. Sorry about that. I tried with dashes in between too.
With the sidebar thingies; you can't put titles in the widgets, or it will mess up because of how I've had to do the positioning. In the 'page elements' tab, they're in order going down the page, so the top 'HTML/JavaScript' is the navigation, the second one the welcome message and so on. You can add more sidebar widgets, but you need to move them below the top two ones (the nav and the welcome one); they are automatically added to the top of the sidebar. Make sure you do this or it will mess up the code a bit. If you're confused, just give me a shout and I'll try and explain better.
For the navigation; I've set it up so that each post will have a unique page, so you link to that. So you can use a post like a normal web page, effectively.
For example, I have my post which has all my fanart in it, it's URL being http://shes-a-pirate.blogspot.com/2007/11/fanart.html. It's just a post I created like any other, but because it has that URL of it's own, that's what I link to when I link to 'Fanart'. It's basically another post, but as you can edit it and it has a fixed URL, you can use it like a regular page on a website.

Hope that's all ok for you.
Any problems just ask :)